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From time to time, anybody is bound to find himself (or herself, for that matter) face to face with a new partner and heading to the bedroom for the first time of passion. Naturally, this is a good time to enjoy the moment by being a bit nervous, shy and embarrassed.
This is the time when both partners wonder about the other's intimate preferences, about whether they would look attractive enough to each other and also about how to please and be pleased.
The biggest advice anybody can give you is to relax and take things easy. Rushing things or spoiling a sweet mood by being exceedingly nervous is plain silly. Sex is not a race or contest to see who gets an orgasm first.
So what if it takes you an extra 5 minutes? Just relax and have fun, because this is why you are having sex in the first place. Being nervous is good for funny memories because in a couple of years you may look back and wonder: "Why was I so nervous anyway?"
Another good think you can do is talk about it with your partner. Try and avoid the guessing about preferences phase by having a relaxed talk with your partner. I know that most new couples do not talk about sex beforehand, but mature persons should be mature enough to have this conversation.
This would be a good time to discuss condoms, STDs and AIDS. You don't have to tell me that starting a relation on a note of uncertainty and doubt is a real downer. Frankly, visiting the STD ward of the hospital or waiting for a letter from the AIDS testing lab is even more of a downer. And if you're changing partners often, then you may want to have this discussion before getting to business.
With that out of the way, you can move the discussion to positions, fantasies and pleasure. Or you can wait until you're both naked and see what the other likes without words. Still, skipping the talk could mean skipping some passion time. Suppose both you and your partner love fast, hot sex with a minimum of clothes being shed. If you go directly to the naked part, then you're not likely to find out about this shared preference for fast action.
And try not to take the first sex session too seriously. It's never going to be perfect. Two people who've never had sex before are very unlikely to get it right on the first try. It takes time to learn what turns on the other, what makes the other go crazy with pleasure and what place and time are the best for sex.
These are things that two people having frequent sex get to learn about each other in weeks, months, years. There's no point in rushing things and there's no point in being mad when something goes wrong. Such is life. Have fun and stay safe.
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